3.31.2009

never a dull moment















































Today, the big kids had pajama day, so Miles followed suit & wore his PJs to Gymboree and Target. Only he wore two sets at the same time, and has, throughout the day, rotated amongst several other sets. I just had to record the craziness that is him today. It's funny how toddlers can be so particular.

Miles' quote of the day: I was getting him out of his car seat, and he proceeded to pick a slimy bit out of his nose, and I said, "Eeeww!"
He said: "It's not a booger, mama. It's booger sauce."

3.29.2009

Grateful Sunday

This week has been wonderful. We've celebrated Audrey's baptism with family and friends, and have loved having visitors! I'm grateful for:
  • Audrey and her peaceful spirit during all of this. She was so beautiful as she was baptized yesterday, it was an amazing moment for all of us.
  • Neal, and his willingness and worthiness to baptize and confirm our little girl.
  • my parents, Neal's dad and Gail, and Jeff and Caroline for coming from near and far to be here for Audrey's special day.
  • all of the women who pitched in to make the baptism run so smoothly and look so pretty.
  • Georgia and John's new baby boy. We're waiting for more news and pictures, but we know that he was born last night!
  • a supportive and hard-working husband. We had a meeting at church today during which a preparedness schedule was presented to us (e.g., get a 72-hour kit prepared by 1 May and have a 3-month food supply by 1 August, 6-month supply by December, etc.). We're well on our way to meeting those goals, and I felt so grateful knowing that I don't have to do all that planning and organizing alone. We're a team and I'm so grateful for that.

3.25.2009

Let the dugout foolishness commence.

It's Little League season again.

3.24.2009

We Lost Our Diamonds, or My First Experience with Karma

So I mentioned in my previous post that we "found" two cut diamonds in the enhanced bucket at the Indian Village (we did, in case you skipped the words in my last post {I do that sometimes, too.}). Well, here they are. They're pretty. But you can see how small they are in reference to my ring.

Apparently, at some point during our drive home, Parker decided to open up the little box in which the diamonds were sealed (with tape).

And the little brown diamond popped out.

And he didn't tell us. 

Yesterday, in preparation for a trip to the car wash, I asked Audrey to give me all the stuff from the back of the car. She held up the box and said, alarmingly, "There's only one diamond in here!" We both looked at Parker. 

"Parker, did you open this box!?" I said incredulously.
Parker: Silence.
"Park-ie!" Audrey and I said in tandem. 
"Oh my gosh, Parker, you better get back there and start looking for that diamond," I said, knowing full well that our car was in serious need of a vacuum, at the very least. And that the little brown diamond looks pretty much like a shiny Wheat Thins crumb.
"Ok," said Parker, quietly and mumbly, climbing into the back.

Over the course of the next hour, while we took a trip to the store, stopped at home to unload groceries, and waited for Audrey to finish her riding lesson, Parker and I searched the back of the car. I was feeling pretty upset with him, mostly for not telling us that he lost it in the first place. The diamond isn't worth anything and we had no plans for it, but it was a sort of symbol of our trip, and I hated to think of it gone for good. I had pretty much given up hope, and then Parker popped his head up and said, "I found it!"

I kissed his cheek, said "Yay!", carefully took it from his fingers, walked into the house with the little box and placed it on the entry table. I very gingerly tried to open the top of the box, but the sticky tape residue made that tricky. Just when I had the top open, you guessed it, out popped the WHITE diamond! I heard it bounce on the table and then looked down at our shaggy carpet in dismay.

"Payback," I said aloud to myself. This is what I get for being short with a five-year-old over a worthless diamond chip. I dropped to the floor and looked for a few minutes, but we were running late, and we had to pick up Audrey. I got into the car and told Parker A) that, unbelievably, I had just lost the white diamond in the 15 seconds I was gone; and B) how sorry I was for being so upset and criticizing him for something so silly (and so easily done). We came home and searched and searched on that carpet. We got flashlights, we recruited Miles (who had no idea what he was looking for), and then, in a moment of glory, I found it next to the baseboard.

You better believe I put that baby back in the box next to its little brown friend and taped it shut for good. Lesson learned.

3.23.2009

Crater of Diamonds. Or, a big field of dirt.

So we went to Arkansas. You're probably wondering why. Well, Neal has always wanted to go to Crater of Diamonds State Park, and we figured this was a perfect time to go. We were right, it was a blast! We drove about 5 hours, through dozens of really small places (like Hope, AR), to a slightly bigger town called Murfreesboro (pop. 1600).

After checking into our hotel, we visited a fun thousand-year-old Indian village, where we saw Indian bones and dug for arrowheads. We picked a lucky (enhanced) bucket that we could sift through for treasures and ended up with several shark teeth, a few arrowheads, a shard of Indian pottery, and two cut diamonds! Of course, they were planted in there by the Indian village curators, but it was a pretty thrilling way to start off our treasure-hunting trip.

sifting in the water for cool stuff

Digging in the dirt at Ka-Do-Ha Indian Village. I thought this field was large (and our odds of finding something quite small) until we got to Crater of Diamonds the next morning.

this is about 1/8 of the field

We arrived at the park just after 9:30 and were some of the last people to leave that evening at 6:00. We were dedicated diamond hunters, y'all! This plowed field covers about 37 acres. It is the eroded surface of an ancient volcanic pipe which, 95 million years ago, brought diamonds to the surface. Every year, about 600 diamonds are found. The day we were there, 13 people found a stone (some as small as 2 points). Pretty much, here's the protocol:
  1. Arbitrarily (or by divine influence), find a spot in which to dig for diamonds.
  2. Sit on your behind and start digging. Convince the kids to do the same (they don't need convincing to dig in the dirt).
  3. Every once in a while, stand up and look around at the vastness of the field, then look back at your teeny little hole and think, "Seriously? Are we really doing this?"

  4. If you feel like it, bring a bucket of dirt to a muddy hole and start to sift through it. Look for something shiny. Resignedly, dump out your sifter. Repeat.
  5. Proceed to get entirely covered in filth. Figure that's what you came for and dig in again.

    some of our little crystals

  6. Find something and, on a detour from taking Miles to the bathroom, go to the identification table only to find out that it's a quartz crystal.
  7. Go back to digging, and listen to all the other fools who think their stinkin' piece of quartz is a diamond. Defeatedly, dig more.
  8. Listen to the kids laugh, shrug and smile at your spouse and think about the memories you're making as a family.
So I sound a little cynical. But we had so much fun. The weather was ideal and the people we met were nice. It's a great testament to the optimism of the American spirit, I thought. We all arrived there thinking that we were the lucky ones. We were meant to find a diamond, and by golly, we'd keep looking until we did. Or until they kicked us out.

Audrey, in a deep hole she took part in digging.

Miles was a surprisingly good sport the whole day. Until his weariness got the best of him and he took a nap on my shoulder.

Parker was hard-core, came home the dirtiest, and has the sunburned ears and a red neck to prove it.

Neal really wanted a diamond. Poor guy.

Our kids in the foreground, and the assortment of other people out there digging. There were all types, I'll tell you what.

We're willing to go again, if anyone wants to join us! Caveat: we will not go in the summertime. Sure, it was fun, but add in a dose of humidity and up the thermostat about 15 degrees, and I'd be whining.

3.22.2009

Grateful Sunday

at the movies last week

This Sunday, I'm grateful for:
  • our safe trip to and from Arkansas this weekend. We had a lot of fun getting really dirty and living really small-town life for a couple of days.
  • my washer and dryer. Oh, I have so much dirty laundry. (Actual caked-in mud on all of the clothes we brought on our trip.) I can't imagine having to wash it all by hand and hang it to dry.
  • everyone who loves Audrey and made her day and week great. We're looking forward to more love this weekend; she gets baptized on Saturday.

3.18.2009

cake number two

We had a fun day with Audrey today. She had lots of sunshine, time to practice with her new jump rope, and calls from far-away family. Plus, nothing's better than having no school on your birthday, right?

She really wanted a movie that Neal and I really hated (Beverly Hills Chihuahua). But we love her. And got it. Hopefully we won't have to watch it.

And who doesn't love rainbow chip cake from the box? We (I) had forked the homemade chocolate one from Saturday to death. Alas, we needed more cake.

We're off to Arkansas for the weekend. Tell you all about it when we get back.

Eight!


Today is Audrey's big day, we're so proud to be her mom and dad.
Happy Birthday Auda Girl!

It was Sunday.

Audrey in May, 2004

Eight years ago today, it was a sunny Sunday. Neal and I were getting ready for church, it was my first Sunday to go back in almost three months. I had been on medication and bed rest since the beginning of January, and it felt so good to get dressed again! I was having some contractions, and they were a little uncomfortable, but I had been having them for so long, that I figured it was just the normal deal for me. Other things quickly indicated that maybe those contractions were a bit more productive than the others had been, and we made a call to the doctor. He told us to meet him at the hospital (also not a new event for us: we had been several times, at least once overnight trying to get the contractions under control).

We called our respective mothers, and made our way the mile and a half to labor and delivery. After getting all set up in our room, we settled in and waited for things to get going a bit more. I couldn't believe we were having our baby that day. We put our faith in Heavenly Father and figured she was coming because she was ready to come. After all that time and energy devoted to keeping her in there, she was okay to be born. We hoped. And prayed.

Neal sat by my side while the contractions came and went. They gave me some Pitocin to get things moving (wish they hadn't), and soon after that, I had an epidural (so glad I did). I was about six centimeters dilated, relaxing through the contractions, when the nurses came rushing in. They were yelling at each other to get the doctor, and everything went a bit blurry after that. I remember hearing the doctor's footsteps and instructions as he came running down the hall and into my room. Neal was told to step away and I remember crying and looking at him and I could tell he felt helpless.

Basically, they told us, in a matter of seconds, that the baby likely wouldn't survive the more strenuous parts of labor. Her heart rate was decreasing with each contraction and she was not regaining strength between them. I was still in the early stages, and they doubted her strength would sustain her through the later pushing and distress. They quickly did all sorts of things to me (I won't go into detail), told me to STOP CRYING, the baby needed oxygen, and within 4 minutes, they had her out and were getting her to breathe. So that was my emergency c-section. My hands are shaking as I type this, it was one of the more traumatic days of my life, to be sure.

A couple of minutes after she was born, I was still on the table, and Neal was holding our precious little girl. The anesthesiologist was admiring her with us, and Neal suddenly said, "She doesn't look right." Next thing we knew, she was being whisked away with the neonatal nurses, and off Neal went to follow.

She turned out to need a few more days in the hospital. She had trouble breathing for the first few hours and needed some closer observation. My mom and Neal took turns wheeling me over to the children's hospital to nurse and hold her for the first 2-3 days. She was perfect. Soft, auburn hair covered her little teeny round head, and she mostly just lay there calmly in her little tray. We were so excited to finally take her home later that week, and have spent the past eight years amazed at her strength, her confidence, and her dauntless personality.

We love you, Audrey! I'm so grateful we both made it through that lovely Sunday in March, 2001.

3.17.2009

Day Thirty

~*30*~
I am all blogged out. And after all is said and done, my everydays are mostly the same. Yours probably are, too. It's been enlightening to find beauty in my daily life this past month, though. Ultimately, to me, the greatest beauty is found in the faces of my little ones. Their spirits and ideas fill my days with smiles, inspire lots of pillow talk with their daddy, and cause me to step back and thank my Heavenly Father for blessing me so tremendously with the responsibility of mothering them. Life is wonderful today and every day that we choose to make it so.

I'm glad I took on this project; I'll likely do it again in a few months, when the summer or autumn light is a bit different, our daily schedules are switched up slightly, and the kids look a little older.
Until then, back to my regular, spotty blogging.

3.16.2009

Day Twenty-Nine

~*29*~
"Mama, I made a dirt pie."

3.15.2009

Grateful Sunday

I have lots of unused photos on the cutting room floor from all this photo-a-day business. Maybe I'll post some of them anyway. Like this one. I love it. I'm on a yellow/gray kick lately.

This Sunday, I'm grateful for:
  • my physical health. Even though some (most) days, I'm lucky to have a moment to sit down and relax, I am truly grateful that no matter what I ask my body to do, I am able to do it without pain or discomfort of any kind. Not that I do anything all that strenuous, but just mothering three kids and keeping the house clean and people fed and clothed takes a lot of physicality, I've found. I've started exercising more lately, too, and am just grateful that my body is capable. And that I had kids young.
  • the wonderful people who teach my kids at church each week. Miles loves his nursery teachers and our older kids' teachers are so consistent and devoted. I appreciate those qualities in people.
  • spring break, spring break, spring break. Just the idea of not waking up Parker at 6:50 for a week is enough to make me jump for joy.

Day Twenty-Eight

~*28*~
We're home from church by 11:30 these days, so we have lots of time to relax the rest of the day. I love it; we all change into our pajamas and do whatever we please. The sun finally came out today, so we spent some time outside. Our ragtag crew had all sorts of crazy clothes on (ahem, Miles), but who cares. We never see our neighbors anyway! I love the way Miles is supervising Audrey with his hands behind his back. So official. He was actually driving her crazy at this moment, trying to guess what her picture was. She has a short fuse.

3.14.2009

Day Twenty-Seven

~*27*~
We had lots of fun with six little girls tonight. They were so grown-up and sweet the whole time. Audrey picks good friends. More pictures to come soon.

3.13.2009

Day Twenty-six

~*26*~
Audrey and I spent part of the afternoon prepping for her "big girl"-style party tomorrow. She and her friends are going out for sushi (with us) and then swimming (indoors).

3.12.2009

Day Twenty-five

~*25*~
The great thing about living here is that we are about a 10 minute drive from the gates at DFW. Long layover? We may just buy you dinner. Thanks for coming, Dad!

3.11.2009

Day Twenty-four

~*24*~
Winter came back today. So we went to Target. We tried to find something to buy for Audrey's birthday, but were unsuccessful. How can she be so hard to shop for when she's only 8?

3.10.2009

Day Twenty-three

~*23*~
I'm running out of interesting things to photograph and have resorted to just playing with my camera. This one's all about leather and lace. I should have bought some boots when I had the chance.

3.09.2009

Day Twenty-two

~*22*~
Parker and I chilled on the couch and read books this afternoon. He knocked through two books, I got through about a chapter. Then it was off to pick up sister, and the craziness that is our Mondays resumed.

3.08.2009

Grateful Sunday

We've had some nice, yet breezy evenings lately. Parker and Neal have been playing catch; t-ball is back in session.

This week, I'm grateful that:
  • Miles went to sleep for the babysitter last night. Now that he's out of a crib, it's a bit of a tricky situation, but the sitter handled it perfectly (at least that's what she said). :)
  • I got to spend time with Neal and some fun friends on our date last night. It's fun to be a grown-up.
  • we had a successful little meeting tonight for the children turning eight this year at our church. We talked about their upcoming baptisms, and you could just see the excitement in their eyes. I guess it's pretty good to be a kid, too.
  • my husband is faithful and responsible. He's the kind of guy you can count on, and that makes me proud to be his wife.
  • we only have one more week of school before Spring Break. We all could use a few days off!

Day Twenty-one

~*21*~
If I could bottle up this just-woke-up face and smoosh it again in twenty years, I would be a happy woman. Every time Miles wakes up from a nap, I immediately drop everything to snuggle and smooch his delicious face. I don't want to miss a day of him. My friend, Stacey, wrote a lovely post about the things we might miss one day: the simplest, best moments in family life. But, I suppose, if we're lucky, there are always more where that came from.

3.07.2009

Day Twenty

~*20*~
We're going on a date.
(Thanks, Auda, for the trendy engagement picture.) 

3.06.2009

Day Nineteen

~*19*~
Audrey and I both needed some clothes altered today, so off to the tailor we went. Audrey was nervous the whole way there. "I have to take off all my clothes? We just leave our stuff there? Who's going to pin my dress?"

3.05.2009

Day Eighteen

~*18*~
Parker is at a friend's house after kindergarten today, so the little one and I went to school to eat lunch with Audrey.

3.04.2009

Day Seventeen

~*17*~
Flowers are budding all over town. I found these outside the gym today. I wish so much that I could bring a big bunch of them to my grandma in California. We're thinking of her today and wishing her a quick recovery.

3.03.2009

Day Sixteen

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A pensive moment during a quick stop at the juice shop after the library this afternoon. All three kids had a nice healthy snack (and I got a few sips) for under $6.
To excuse my constant carriage of the camera to random strangers, I have constructed a little fib about fulfilling some assignment for an imaginary photography class.
Otherwise I look like a weirdo doing a photo shoot of my own children. You know?

3.02.2009

Day Fifteen

~*15*~
The fact that Miles fell asleep in the car at 10:45 this morning threw my entire day off. But I am never one to wake a sleeping baby. Everything else just had to wait.

3.01.2009

Grateful Sunday

This week has been nice. A bit busy at the beginning, but it settled down nicely by the weekend. I'm grateful for:
  • the stability of my home. I'm grateful that my kids know what to expect around here and that their lives are happy and peaceful. I often think about (or read books about) young people whose lives are full of chaos. Their homes are full of contention and empty of love. My heart goes out to kids like this, and I feel so lucky to have a home where my kids can feel safe and be who they are.
  • this interesting blog post, shared by Ginger.
  • this new video on lds.org. Also shared by Ginger. Ginger shares good stuff.
  • my tutoring student, for helping me remove the birds who flew into my house through the open back door last week. The whole process involved lots of shrieking and face covering on my part, pleas for help to Parker and a phone call to Neal. Eventually, Colton and I were able to chase them out. I hate it when birds get in, it totally freaks me out.
  • my blog-friend, April's thoughts about her young son and her evening prayers.
  • lovely messages at church today. We listened to a broadcast Regional Conference with President Uchtdorf.
  • sunshine, even when it's cold!

Day Fourteen


~*14*~
A little vignette from Audrey's newly decorated room. I posted more pictures on my other blog.