9.29.2007

Grateful Sunday

This week, I'm feeling grateful for:
  • sort-of cooler weather. We can play outside and not get completely sweaty. Although the bugs are in full force, so I'm also grateful for this stuff. Not grateful for biting ants.
  • friendly neighbors who always are up for playing outside with our kids. (And thanks to Kimberly for the picture!)
  • a Sunday morning off. Neal and I switched places this morning; I went to pre-church meetings and was therefore only responsible for getting one person ready: Moi. This also meant a quiet little pre-church sit in the chapel, solo.
  • sitting with Audrey at the piano while she SO sweetly and confidently sang this song while I played. (After she practiced, of course, Miss Pam!)
  • an upcoming visit from my parents. We're so spoiled that not having seen them since July is becoming really difficult!
This picture, although certainly not my favorite shot of me (vain, vain, I know), is just so perfectly indicative of my life. And for that reason, I do love it. Like I said to Kimberly when she showed it to me yesterday, there I am, kids crawling all over me, and happy anyway. That's what life's all about and that's definitely something to be grateful for. I'm so lucky to be a momma.

And Audrey looks like a grown-up. :(

9.28.2007

Mitt Men

Well, we all know that Miles is Mr. Romney's favorite baby from the campaign trail. Miles decided to start paying back the compliments and is now wearing Romney gear on his round belly. Audrey, thrilled at the prospect of Mitt being president, said last night, "Daddy, did you know that Mitt Romney is friends with Pa!? That is SO cool!"

Thanks Mom and Dad!

You can get Mitt stuff here. (The kids' shirts run small.)

9.26.2007

Book Deal

My friend Erika is a deal diva. Somehow she always knows about the best sales. She practically steals stuff from CVS every week, let me in on Olive Juice's latest bargains, and rocks the Gymboree sales like nobody's business. Yesterday, she blogged about an incredible sale on kids' books at Amazon. 80% off over 1400 titles (other books are on clearance, too). She got over $300 worth of books for about 50 bucks. Children's books are my weakness, so I had to check it out. Here's my loot. Twenty books for $33, including shipping. Boo-yeah!

And, ya, I did look at all 1400 titles. Couldn't help myself. None of these were over $2.50.

Thanks, Erika!

1. Curious George and the Dog Show: An Early Reader
2. First Words
3. George and Martha Back in Town
4. Scholastic Q & A: How Do Bats See In The Dark?
5. Mustang in the Mist (Animal Ark Hauntings #8)
6. Glitter Unicorns Stickers (Dover Little Activity Books)
7. My Daddy Snores
8. Galoshes
9. Sweater
10. Zathura: The Movie Deluxe Storybook
11. The Big Book of the Civil War: Fascinating Facts About the Civil War, Including Historic Photographs, Maps, and Documents
12. Well Done, Worm!: Brand New Readers
13. Stink: The Incredible Shrinking Kid
14. Whatever
15. The Mystery of the Lost Mine (Boxcar Children Mysteries)
16. Small Acts of Kindness
17. Rosalie and Truffle, Truffle and Rosalie
18. Minute Mysteries: Brainteasers, Puzzlers, And Stories to Solve (American Girl Mysteries)
19. My Friend Rabbit
20. My Big Science Book : Simple, Fun Experiments for All Young Scientists (Smart Kids)

Your turn!

Could not resist.


Please note the delicious wippies (lips) and the tint of the hair.
Sweet dreams little dude.

9.24.2007

A big week . . .

for our little girl.

Check out her latest news over at
Unicorns in the Mist.



Did I mention she looooves comments?

I wonder where she gets that from . . .

Simply Real :)

I'm going for brevity in this month's Real Simple interview from Natalie.

1. Describe your most embarrassing fashion moment.

I'm sure I've had more embarrassing ones than this, but two years ago, I accidentally wore jeans to a Stake Relief Society Women's Conference. Every other person was wearing a dress. I don't know what I was thinking. It was on a Saturday morning, but it was in the chapel. I felt really lame.

2. How often do you weigh yourself?
Once a year at the girlie doctor.

3. What is your main source of news?
NPR in my car and sometimes, the internet.

4. Something that has been on my mind lately is . . . the question, "Is Miles really my last baby? Am I okay with that?"

5. Describe your high school yearbook photo.
I was still 16 when I entered my senior year. I had just-below-shoulder-length dishwater blonde hair. (I didn't start coloring it until I went to college.) I had on a french blue long-sleeved crew neck shirt, some sort of simple necklace, and pearl stud earrings. A little mascara and lip gloss. I was a pretty simple girl.

6. Name something that, once you stopped battling it, has made your life simpler.
The little "battles" I could have with my kids, but choose to avoid. Things like wearing swim clothes on regular days and teal flip flops with a red dress, one more snack at bedtime and letting them sleep in the same bed. There's just no sense getting upset about those kinds of things.

7. The big decision I'm currently wrestling with is . . . again, the job search. It's "weighing heavily" as they say.

image from Daily Candy

9.23.2007

Grateful Sunday

This week has just been full of every day comings and goings. It's amazing how I can't seem to remember anything that happened other than Audrey getting glasses and a certain type of doctor's visit I had to endure. Nevertheless, there is still so much to be grateful for. This week, I'm feeling grateful for the following:

1. The fact that I have a baby. Miles is just the sweetest little dude. He's never in a bad mood, he's always quick to be silly and have fun, he's never extraordinarily fussy, and he makes our life so happy. Plus, he's always up for hugging and cuddling, which brings so much joy to me as his mama. I love the way that babies make you feel needed and loved, even when you feel very unappreciated and unlovable. Tonight he fell asleep with his cheek on my cheek. His little sweaty head just slowly relaxed onto my shoulder and he kept making sucking noises with his little mouth. It was such a blissful moment. I don't know what I'll do when I don't have a baby anymore.

2. Neal's great talk in church today. It was fun to look at him up there talking so comfortably (not like I would have been) and feeling so proud to be his wife. And I also love the fact that they asked him to do it last minute and not me.

3. No hurricanes. Yet.

4. My house, my pantry full of food, my car full of gas, and my washer and dryer. Even when life seems hard, the stresses of work and money get us down, and we're not sure what the future holds, we can very quickly take a step back and look at just how good we have it. We're so blessed.

9.22.2007

So much better!

Finally, we got Audrey's glasses today. She immediately appreciated how much better her vision is; she can see leaves on trees, blades of grass, the grain of the wood on the fence, and the "designs" on the clouds (just some of the new things she could see on our way home!). She said, as we drove by our old in-town apartment for old time's sake, "Mama, see that little white dog in the window? He would just be a white blob if I didn't have these glasses on!"

I am more than slightly freaked out by how much she looks like her Aunt Charlotte. It's truly amazing that she is not Charlotte's child! Can I get a witness, H* family? Seriously!
I took several pictures of her sporting her new dark teal frames. I think she looks beautiful.













Here is Miles, celebrating Audrey's first day of wearing glasses.

And Parker. He's excited for her, too.

9.21.2007

The War on PBS

When I was a teenager, there was a documentary shown on PBS called The Civil War, made by Ken Burns. It completely changed the way I thought about history and the unimaginable sacrifices people have made in this country. I remember crying through it with my mom, hearing old letters read, listening to the powerful soundtrack, and being extremely moved and humbled. One day, I'll own the entire series on DVD. It's very powerful, and I suggest you somehow get a hold of it so that you can see it, too.
Well, Mr. Burns has apparently done an incredible job on his new documentary, about World War II, and it premieres on PBS this Sunday night. It's called The War. I'm sure it will be very difficult to watch, but you can be sure I'll be watching.

Kleenex box on my lap.

9.19.2007

Audrey's Idea of Fun

"Mama, you tell me some hard words and I'll see if I can write them on the board without making any mistakes."

P.S. She'll be wearing her new fashionable specs by Saturday.
Oh, you know I'll be posting pictures! :)

a year ago today


Not a whole lot going on here today, but this is what I posted one year ago today, a little "fluff."

What was on your blog September 19, 2006?

9.18.2007

Our new "tree"

There is, quite unexpectedly, a new "tree" outside of my bathroom window.
It bends in the breeze (obviously we have big breezes),

it has these pretty little red flowers and seedpods that look like edamame.















The leaves are delicate and lacy and the tree is taller than our fence. Neal thinks it's a Texas Honey Locust tree, but we're really not sure, since it wasn't here when we moved in.
This is because, this "tree," although it is pretty, kind of charming in its slanted ways, and may be adding to our property value, is, in very fact,






a WEED.
A very large, very quick-growing, very mysterious WEED
(in that we have no idea how it came to be in our yard).

So do we stake it and hope it straightens up and just let it be a tree? Or do we uproot it and toss it to the curb for Tuesday trash removal?

What would you do?

A boy with a dog.

Happy Birthday, Grampy!

I love this picture of my grandpa as a boy.
And I love so many things about my Grampy.

A few:
I love how enthusiastic he is.
I love his hugs.
I love that he adores jazz music and baseball.
I love how devoted he is to his Alma Mater (they're naming a building after him.)
I love that he reads like a fiend.
I love how handsome he is with his white buzz and tan skin.
I love how he calls me "Les."
I love how he loves life.

You're the best Grampy! All the greatest to you today!

You can see more pictures of Grampy here and here.

9.17.2007

Buds

Parker has a little friend named Braeden with whom he likes to spend his Mondays or Fridays.* The other days, they are busy being studious at preschool. Here they are last Friday, doing something little boys do very well, watching STAR WARS, after having worn themselves out playing all morning. It's so fun to have a friend.

*Sorry for the nerdy English grammar fixation. I just can't bring myself to say it wrong!

9.16.2007

Grateful Sunday

Houston, Texas LDS Temple photo by Tara

This week, I'm feeling completely unworthy and undeserving of all the blessings I've been given. Do you have days like that? Sometimes I feel like the last person who should be enjoying this kind of life. I've done nothing to earn it and at times, I feel like someone's going to figure that out and it will all be taken away. Being grateful for these things at least helps me acknowledge how blessed I feel, and that makes me feel a little better about the job I'm doing living up to what's expected of me.

Today, I feel grateful for:
  • the fact that nobody could see my legs and hands shaking while I accompanied a youth choir at church today, last minute.
  • Audrey's not-so-perfect grades at school this past week. It's helped her see that hurrying through your work isn't always the best idea, and it gave us a chance to see that she's really learning something this year. After she came home with an 80 on her phonograms test, and we studied a bit, she earned 100 on her next one. She was so proud of her improvement.
  • the chance I have to be married. And not only married, but married to a man who knows me, gets me and loves me anyway. And not only that, but we're married forever. That's the best part.
  • this quote (among many others) from the lesson at church today. (It's speaking of Spencer W. Kimball, who was the leader of the LDS church from 1973-1985):
"Spencer and Camilla Kimball’s love for one another, which was so evident when they were young, grew stronger and deeper as they grew older. President Kimball often expressed gratitude for the relationship he and his wife shared: 'Camilla has been by my side in every experience. We have buried our parents and other loved ones, and have given up our own little children prematurely born. We have been in the depths and soared to the heights. . . . We have wept together and we have laughed together. . . . Our life has been full of fun in spite of all the sad and serious things. We have danced; we have sung; we have entertained; we have loved and been loved. (emphasis mine) With a wife like Camilla Eyring, life becomes inclusive, full, and abundant.' ”

Idn't that sweet?

9.14.2007

noise & cuteness

all rolled into one.






















h a p p y f r i d a y!

9.13.2007

Marriage Meme

A while ago, I was tagged by Lindsey for this marriage meme. I'm finally getting around to it, thanks to inspiration from Steph, who did it yesterday. Hooray for marriage!

Where did you meet your husband?

Neal and I first laid eyes on each other at the BYU Fall Fling, ten years ago this week. Or month. Our mutual friend, Keith, introduced us very quickly and casually. Neal HAD to see me again, of course, so made sure he came to a party my brother had a week or two later. A few days after that, he called to ask me out. You can read the story in more detail, here.

What was the first thing you said to your husband?

I don't really remember. Probably something like, "Hi Neal, it's nice to meet you." The night of the party, I asked him if he wanted something to drink and told him I liked his shoes.

Where was the first date? First kiss?

For our first date, Neal took me to the Utah Symphony and out to dinner at Baci in SLC. It was a double date and I felt very comfortable, although Neal swears I was flirting with his roommate the whole time. (I keep assuring him that I was playing hard to get. I had NO interest in his roommate.) It was super fun. The best part is that I was a pretty good journal-keeper at the time, so I have it all recorded.

For our first kiss, we had been out on a date, probably at DeMae, and I had driven for some reason. I was dropping him off at his house and before he got out, he asked if he could give me a kiss. Um, yes, you may.

Did you have a long or short courtship/engagement?

We met in September 1997, kissed in November, dated for the next several months, were engaged the next August, and married November 1998. So a little more than a year from meeting to marriage. Quick and crazy, now that I look back on it!

Where did you get engaged?

I went to London for Study Abroad in Spring of 1998. While I was gone, I pretty much decided that I wanted to marry Neal. I think it took him a bit longer, but a couple of months after I got home, we had both decided it was what we wanted. We took a trip to Texas and Louisiana at the end of the Summer. Neal bought a diamond from a family friend in Louisiana, we went back to his parents' house in Tyler, Texas. One night (August 15th), we were up on the second floor porch swing, talking, and he pulled out the ring, got on one knee and popped the question. The crickets and cicadas were making lots of noise, Neal seemed kind of nervous, I was thrilled and thought his mom might be listening through the window, and the Southern night was very still and warm. I'll never forget how I felt. It was incredible.

Where did you get married?

We were married in the Los Angeles LDS Temple on a lovely day in November. It was sunny and warm, just right. A perfect SoCal day.

How did the reception go?

We had our reception a few hours later at a catering facility and garden in Costa Mesa, Ca. Neal and I arrived a while before everyone else, after our very memorable drive-thru stop at In 'n Out in our wedding clothes. We took a few pictures before the guests arrived, and just had fun relaxing. We forgot to give Neal's family directions from their hotel, so they were late, which was sad and I felt terrible. But his lovely family assured us that everything was fine and not to worry. We had a sit-down dinner, a small jazz quartet playing, and lots of friends and family. I didn't have bridesmaids, and wanted to keep things pretty simple and get out of there at a reasonable hour. We didn't do toasts or a first dance or anything, but we both had fun. We made sure we said hello to each guest and thanked them for coming. It turned out that our cake wasn't quite big enough, so the slices were teeny, but everything else went perfectly! We drove off to the Newport Beach Four Seasons in our yuppie-mobile, a black Saab 9-5. It was lovely!
Maybe Neal can recount the reception at his house in detail on his blog. It involves his house almost burning down and my dad risking his life to save an antique rug. Consider yourself tagged, baby.

How was the honeymoon?

Neal surprised me with our honeymoon location. All I knew was that I should pack for the beach (we had agreed that was necessary). We hopped on a plane from LAX to Miami, so I guessed it was Carribbean-ish. When they listed off the connecting flights as we deplaned, Neal and I looked right in each other's eyes as I tried to guess our ultimate destination. I guessed correctly, I think. I don't really remember. We went to Grand Cayman, and stayed at the Westin Casuarina Resort. It was SO beautiful and we had way too much fun.

I'm tagging my Grammy for this one, and anyone else who'd like to give it a shot!

9.12.2007

If you squint your eyes,

and use your imagination a little bit, you can almost see that Miles has "curls" in the back of his "hair." This is highly exciting, folks.

9.10.2007

Splurge or Scrimp

I thought this was a fun idea for a post: things you on which you splurge and things on which you scrimp. Money is on my mind a lot these days, and not in a good way, so it made me feel good that our "splurges" are pretty low-key and in ten years, they just might seem silly.

splurges

1. My Hair - I spend a little over one hundred dollars having my hair cut and colored. Such is the burden of having dishwater blonde hair. Instead of having it refreshed every 6-8 weeks like my hairdressers always suggest, I can only do it about 3 times a year. For now.

2. Orange Juice- We go through at least a gallon of orange juice a week. I could get the frozen concentrate and mix it with our nasty tap water, but it tastes really yucky. I buy 1 or 2 96-ounce Tropicanas a week. At about six bucks a pop. Totally worth it.

3. Our Kids' Education- We could have easily kept Audrey at the public school down the road, which we contribute to through our hefty annual school tax, but chose to splurge, sending her to the private school, which we can barely afford, but which has already made a huge difference. I'm also a firm believer in sending kids to preschool for a few hours a week the year before kindergarten. So we pay for that, too. I've also noticed that both of my kids' extra-curricular activities are academic in nature. Looks like, for now, we're heading down the nerdy road instead of the sporty one.

4. Good Meat- We've been spoiled by Neal's family's adoration and requirement for good steak, good brisket, good turkey, etc. We don't get to see his family all that much, but ever since Neal's brother, Jeff, sent us delicious high-quality steaks for Christmas last year, we've been buying up the good cuts. And they're so good when Neal grills them up with lots of salt & pepper.

5. Cereal- We have a lot of cereal in our house. And only name-brands will do. I use coupons every chance I get, but it still adds up.

6. School Shoes for the Kids- Every August, we head to Stride Rite to get our kids one pair each (they have a buy-one-get-one-half-off sale every August). They each have several pairs of "other" shoes (lots of flip flops), but I think it's important to get a good-fitting, quality pair of sneakers for school.

7. Medical Care- I feel like this is a reluctant splurge, but I'll pay a little extra for a private hospital room after my c-sections, and I'm pretty prompt about well child visits and immunizations, even when it's a tight budget month. I guess I'm just paranoid and want to be sure the kids are getting the best. That's how we knew Audrey had such bad vision. She never squints or complains about it, but that vision screening let us know just how difficult it was for her!

8. Books - I have a major weakness when it comes to beefing up my library or my kids' library. I have a hard time leaving Barnes & Noble or Amazon.com without spending at least $30.

9. Everyday conveniences - Cell phones for the two of us, DVR and high-speed internet. We're just too used to it.

scrimps

1. Electronics- We bought a 22-inch old-fashioned TV at Wal-mart about 6 years ago. It's still our only TV, we don't own any video game systems (much to Parker's distress), and just really aren't all that into buying movies or fancy gadgets.

2. My shoes- I won't pay more than twenty bucks for a pair of shoes. Sure, I may pay $12.99 a few too many times, but at least I wear most of my shoes pretty regularly.

3. Everyone else's hair - It's a triple treat at Great Clips when the time comes. Luckily, Miles is saving us money by remaining quite bald.

4. Sunglasses - I don't ever see myself spending $75 on sunglasses, at least not as long as I have children who eat them or my forgetful brain. I prefer the $5 pairs.

5. Kids' clothes - As tempting as Gymbucks can be every once in a while, I only buy my kids' clothes at stores like Gymboree about once or twice a year. Most of the time, Old Navy is our favorite source for their clothes. (I could obviously save more by buying at Wal-mart or some such place, but I just can't bring myself to put that stuff on my kids. I gotta have a little quality!)

6. Furniture - Most of our stuff is either hand-me-downs or self-assembled stuff from Target or Ikea. It'll do for now, but when we move, a lot of it is going to the curb. A bookshelf we've put together after three moves just isn't looking so good anymore.

7. Accessories - This is the kind of thing where low quality isn't that big of a deal. I like to pick up a new bold necklace or headband every so often, but never for more than $5. Same goes for handbags, I can never have enough, but never spend more than $20.

8. Lawn Service - It's absolutely criminal how hot and sweaty one can become while mowing the lawn & cleaning up the yard every 8 days or so. But we just can't bring ourselves to budget out 25 bucks a week for someone else to do it. Especially since we own a lawn mower. We'd rather use the money for a meal out on the weekend.

9. Neal's Wheels - He drives a 1998 Honda Civic. And he's at least the third owner. It smells of old yogurt containers and gym clothes, has a cracked windshield and a broken rear-view mirror. It's not even remotely shiny. It has a dull matte finish to it. And we wash it about twice a year.

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9.09.2007

Grateful Sunday

kids at sunset dinner in Maui

This Sunday, I'm grateful for:
  • all the sleep Miles has blessed us with the past few months. He's slept through the night every night and I feel so much better! I know it's sad that he finally did it around his first birthday, but that's the way it goes around here. What can I say, I'm a wimp.
  • the feeling in Church today that I was undoubtedly in the right place at the right time. I just felt it for a fleeting moment until my hair got pulled and my attention waned, but I knew that I was supposed to be there.
  • the way our kids treat each other. Audrey has her moments of undeniable bossiness, to be sure, but she and Parker can play together for hours and we never hear a peep. Parker sneaks into Audrey's bed almost every night. When you ask him why, he says, "Because I love her." We just hope Miles gets let into the club sometime soon, too.
  • leaves on the ground here and there, which gives me hope that summer might actually end. Sometime in the next three months.

9.07.2007

chill weekend

We are just chillin' around here. No plans, not a whole lot going on. Neal's working this weekend and we're gonna stay in our pajamas.

I thought this was a good chilling picture of Miles. Especially since I took it at Dairy Queen. ;)

Do you have any fun weekend plans?

9.05.2007

Get excited!

Thursday nights! A weekly dose of Tim will have to hold us over until Project Runway 4!

9.04.2007

20/100


Audrey's getting glasses.

I have mixed emotions, obviously. She looks so different with the little frames on! But I want her to see better, of course. I asked the eye doctor if she'd have to wear them all the time.

She said, "Um, she's going to want to wear them all the time. It's going to make a major difference in her life."

She likes these. I do, too.

Question: If you wear glasses or if your kids do, would you or do you prefer plastic frames or flexible metal frames with the nose pad things. The doctor said that the plastic (like these, above) are more comfortable, but they seem like they'd be heavier. The metal are more flexible, less likely to break, but I think the plastic frames are cuter overall.

Help?

9.03.2007

Old-Fashioned Family Fun

At the River City Grille (It was actually NICE outside in the Hill Country! In September! It floored me.)

We had a great time on our little jaunt into the Texas Hill Country. It was absolutely beautiful. Rolling green hills, vineyards and waterfalls, peach farms and quaint towns, storms moving in and lots of cows and horses. I knew it would be pretty, but I was surprised by how idyllic it really was. We loved Austin and its suburbs, have plenty of Googling to do, and lots of work ahead of us finding Neal just the right job, wherever it is.
We spent a ton of time in the car, much to Miles' chagrin (is there a word for really, really strong chagrin?). By the time we pulled into our driveway last night, he had gone completely bonkers. He was just kind of chanting and sticking his tongue out, occasionally eating his toes. It was really sad. But funny, too. Only because we were home, though.
And now, our boring family vacation slideshow, for your bloggy pleasure:


the kids in the hotel's pretty backyard

laughing about a secret they just told, on Main Street in Fredericksburg

Miles took two steps immediately after this picture was taken. I shed a tear or two. I secretly don't want him to ever learn to walk.

Miles letting me hug him on the swing behind the hotel.

Pitching washers. Never heard of this game, but Neal knew the name of it.

Favorite Parker quotes from the trip:
"I like walking to restaurants."
"Mama, after this (cave exploring), can we do something else sort of awesome?"
"We're not really supposed to go to waterfalls on Sunday."

Look for more pictures on Neal's blog, soon.