1.31.2007

Sweet Miles

I did the free Picture People thing today that Natalie always raves about and takes advantage of. No sitting fee, and ONE free picture to take home. I went to the mall so Parker could play on the play area, and came away with this. The boys actually happened to be matching today, so I had some of the two of them taken, too. They just weren't as irresistable as this one.
I love it.

1.30.2007

Sigh . . .

I miss my camera. It's not that I even need it to blog, but with it gone, I feel very blah when it comes to blogging. Do you all feel blah, too? Not a whole lot of blogging going on in my circle. It must be the weather.

I thought I'd post this picture I love of Audrey holding the baby just after she met him. Look at her cute little legs. ;)

I got an email today telling me my camera is on its way home, all fixed and functional and pretty-like. Well, it probably still has scratches all over it, but at least I'll be able to take pictures of my sillies again. Stay tuned for yummy Miles pics, whether you want them or not.

1.29.2007

Neal is Old

Today, my darling husband has a birthday. He's getting to the age where he might not wanting me telling you how old he is, but let's just say, he's 3 years older than me, and I'm 29. hehee

There are so many things I love about Neal. When I met him, I found that he was unlike anyone I had dated before that, in all the best ways. I fell for him pretty quickly, at least in my estimation, and I am so glad he fell for me, too.

Here are some of the things I love about Neal:

I love the way his Southern accent comes back when he's on the phone with his dad.
I love the way he sniffs our children insatiably, especially the backs of their necks and their hair.
I love that he isn't emotional when I am.
I love that he's a good, safe driver.
I love that all he wanted for his birthday was a light bulb for his saltwater tank.
I love that he hops out to pump the gas, no matter who's driving.
I love the way his eyes smile.
I love that he loves to have animals, and likes for them to have babies.
I love the way his beard grows in red.
I love that he can ride a horse, but only because he grew up working while riding.
I love to hear him sing.
I love that he's not scared of bugs and other yucky things.
I love his baby talk.
I love how gentle he is with children and animals.
I love that he loves to learn and travel.
I love that he seems to remember and be able to quickly recall anything he's ever learned.
I love that he hates shopping.
I love that 2 out of our 3 kids look like him.
I love that we're married forever.

Obviously, I could go on and on, but I'll spare you.

Happy Birthday Baby!

1.28.2007

Grateful Sunday


This Sunday, I'm grateful for:
  • living in a quiet, peaceful neighborhood where our neighbors are friends we can count on for help.
  • sunshine, since I've missed it so!
  • peace in my home and among my family, and peace in my mind regarding the decisions I've made in my life.
  • this post by my highly intelligent and Oxford-bound sister, Julianne. It gave me something to think on while nursing in the dark these past couple of days.

A couple of goals for the week:
  1. Make Parker's blankie. Didn't get it done last week.
  2. Publish something on my Horn Family History blog.
  3. Clean out my car and make Neal get his car washed. (It's "the dirtiest car in the whole wuld," according to Parker.)
  4. Work on my Personal History.

*image found here

1.26.2007

Hi. I'm Miles . . .

I'm Miles. I'm chubby, I'm cute and I drool. You got a problem with that?

I like to wear turtlenecks and cords when I want to look smart,

and the flash on Mom's dinosaur camera makes me look kind of weird. Digital camera! Where are you?

1.25.2007

Real Simple thing

Natalie tagged any and all of her readers to do this little questionnaire she found in Real Simple magazine. Since it's not Wednesday anymore, I can't very well leave "Wordless Wednesday" up on my blog! Heavens! So here goes:

* Bath or shower? I shower, for time's sake, but whenever I'm giving my kids a nice warm tubby, I'm very tempted to hop in with them, or go start one for myself. I always tell Audrey, as she whines during conditioner time, "I would LOVE for someone to wash my hair in the tub! You're so lucky!" She doesn't buy it.

* What did you want to be when you were little? I think I wanted to be a teacher, but then, I went to college, grew up a bit, and realized I totally don't have that in me.

* What's the one thing you'll never understand? Men. Just kidding, they're so transparent. :) I don't understand lots of things, like, for example, polygamy. But I've also never understood why grown people would start smoking. Or why mature, intelligent people still think it's fun to get drunk.

* What surprises you most about your adult life? That I still feel like I'm very young and have so much still to learn, even though I'm almost 30. And that I have experienced the miracle of having a baby three times.

* What's your idea of the perfect meal? I'm gonna break it down into meals like Natalie did:
Breakfast--hot chocolate (the real kind made with milk and real chocolate), fresh squeezed orange juice, pain au chocolat, and eggs scrambled with a bit of sharp cheddar cheese, heavy on the black pepper.
Lunch--a really, really good deli sandwich, turkey with everything on it, something crunchy on the side, and lemonade
Dinner--Chips and salsa, a nice, tall virgin strawberry drink, and really good fajitas with homemade tortillas. Ice cream on the way home.

* What's the craziest fashion trend or hairstyle you've worn? Big bangs in fourth grade. And, due to my very strong Fish cowlick, I can't really have bangs, so, looking back, I don't know how I did that.

* What amount of money would make you feel you were set for life? How about 20 mil, wisely invested.

* If you could change careers now without any consequences or financial loss, what would you switch to? I'm changing this question to "if I could start a career," which of course, I won't be doing for a long time yet, if ever. Anyway, I would be a travel writer. And Neal would come with me.

* The big decision I'm currently wrestling with is... how in the world am I going to get Miles to fall asleep on his own and stop waking up 4 times a night, since he won't take a binky, and I'm a total wuss and can't let him cry. Speaking of, I'm off to take a nap.

1.24.2007

Wordless Wednesday: Thank Goodness for Audrey

I found some pictures to post :)

1.23.2007

Tuesdays

Today is Tuesday, which means Audrey and Parker are both in school. It's just me and Miles here at home and it's raining and cold. I always think, "Great! A whole half-day with only one kid! Think how much I could get done, how many errands I could run and how quickly!"

But when Neal asked me this morning what I would be doing today, I said, "I'm going back to bed."

Not only is it cold and raining, but Miles hates the car (still) and has a runny nose, if I leave the house, I'll just end up spending money, and I'm really, really tired. So, call me boring, call me lazy, I'm ready for a nap. I guess this is what a week of no sunshine does to me. I could never live in Washington.

Also, my camera is out of commission for at least a week. It's being repaired someplace far away where only UPS goes. I may not be blogging much this week, partly because I can't take any pictures of Miles, and partly because I don't have anything going on. I mean nothing.

I have been posting yummy recipes, though, since they don't require a camera.

1.21.2007

Grateful Sunday


This Sunday, I'm grateful for:

  • my parents, who taught me so much, including the idea that the world is a very small place and a very big place at the same time. My mom took this beautiful picture in England last fall. (Buckland, Mom?)
  • Audrey and Parker, who always want to learn about interesting things, and who both plan on being scientists when they grow up. (In addition to being a cowgirl and a superhero, respectively.)
  • my garage, which keeps us from having to get cold and/or wet when I want to go somewhere. And the fact that we're "organized" enough to fit both of our cars into it.
  • the delicious baby smell of my sweet little Miles. It's kind of like a mix of warm sugar cookies and strawberries. yum.
  • family history, which, although time-consuming and frustrating, is also a very peaceful and fulfilling hobby.
  • my hair, which I have actually liked lately.
  • a little bit of sunshine and blue skies today. After about 4 or 5 days of clouds and cold, dreary rain, I was beginning to think I suffered from a touch of S.A.D.
  • my health and the health of my family.
  • peaceful Sunday afternoons.
Some goals for this week:
  1. Implement weekly chore/housekeeping chart created last week, which means tomorrow, I'm cleaning bathrooms. bleh.
  2. Cook something new for dinner.
  3. Bring a treat to the neighbors, since my friend (the mom) just had surgery and dad is in charge of the food this week.
  4. Make new blankie for Parker.

1.19.2007

Your Life, Your Story

Since this subject seems to interest a couple of you, I thought I'd post some thoughts about personal histories in a new post. Not that I'm an expert or anything, but I do have some thoughts. Lindy asked what the difference is between a journal and a personal history. A journal is a daily, personal record of occurrences, experiences, and reflections. It is kept on a regular basis (ideally), and therefore chronicles your everyday life and how you feel about it.

A personal history, though, is more like an autobiography. It is written from a point of view of recollection. For example, mine could start out, "I was born eighteen days late, the first daughter of David and Lauren P*, of Villa Park, California."

Here's a good definition: "a person's own biography, or written account of his or her life, distinguished from the journal or diary by being a connected narrative, and from memoirs by dealing less with with contemporary events and personalities."

Basically, it tells the story of your life. You ought to include details such as when and where you were born, who your parents were, what you loved to do as a child, what you liked to do with your friends in highschool, how you met your spouse, what you studied in college and why, when your children were born and how you chose their names, etc. The trick is to make it interesting to read.

If you've ever had the experience of losing someone close to you, you'll understand that after they are gone, you suddenly have many questions you wish you could have asked them, whether it's about their life, what they remember about certain times in history, or simply the name of their high school. All of these things can lead you to other people who may have known them and have memories of them as well. I've had that experience on a number of occasions now, and it is quite frustrating and saddening. Neal and I, for example, conducted an oral interview of the woman who helped care for him when he was a child. She has led an extremely interesting life, but unfortunately, is illiterate and not capable of creating her own history. She's not even sure how old she is, but she remembers incredible events from her childhood and funny stories about Neal and his siblings that we have now recorded onto a tape. I remember my dad doing the same thing with my great-grandmother when I was a child. Conducting oral interviews like that is a great way to get to know someone and bring their memories to the surface.

I guess it all comes down to understanding the eternal nature of your family and your ancestors, and how you fit into the family tree, something I feel deeply about. I hope that by recording my own life story, even if it's only the beginning of it now, I will alleviate any frustration for anyone after I'm gone. This may seem like a somber idea, but I feel that it's really quite important.

Like I said before, this is obviously a huge undertaking, and not something I plan on finishing anytime soon, but I'd like to get a sort of rough draft going, so that when I have more time, I can go in and fill in details and memories as they come to me.

This website has good information to get you started. They're trying to sell you something, too, though.

Here is another website with some good ideas and articles about writing personal histories.

Here are some suggestions to help you get going on what to write, some prompts, if you will.

Here is a book written by a member of the LDS church, called How to Write Your Personal History.

1.18.2007

New Pursuit

One of my new year's resolutions this year was to get back into my family history research. Since Miles was born, it's been way on the back burner. But, as part of that resolution, I've decided to start writing down my personal history. In the past several years, I've discovered a passion within me for all things family history, and how I wish I had, at the very least, a synopsis of the lives of any or all of my ancestors. I've gathered little pieces of some of their lives from new-found relatives and old and new research. I've gleaned details about my more recent ancestors from those who still remember them, but how wonderful it would be to have something in their own hand to read!

I hope that one day, my story will be valuable to someone, even if it's only my own children. I already have journals which piece together my life over the years, but I'm more interested in recording the memories I have of my childhood, my family, my upbringing, etc., from this point in my life. This is obviously a life-long pursuit, and my story won't be very long, since I'm not even 30 yet (hehee), but I might as well start now, while my brain is fresh and full. (I'm not counting my blog.)

Of the value of journal keeping, President Spencer W. Kimball (of the LDS Church) wrote:

“A journal is the literature of superiority. Each individual can become superior in his own humble life.

“What could you do better for your children and your children’s children than to record the story of your life, your triumphs over adversity, your recovery after a fall, your progress when all seemed black, your rejoicing when you had finally achieved?

“Some of what you write may be humdrum dates and places, but there will also be rich passages that will be quoted by your posterity” (“The Angels May Quote from It,” New Era, Oct. 1975, p. 5. Emphasis added).

Why don't you start your personal history, too?

1.17.2007

A Little Pat on the Back

I've accomplished all three of my goals for the week, and it's only Wednesday! They weren't difficult goals, of course, but I like to start small.

Goal #1: Finish The Bonesetter's Daughter by Amy Tan. It was a wonderful read, I recommend it highly! Here are two of my favorite excerpts:

"And then I realized what the first word must have been: ma, the sound of a baby smacking its lips in search of her mother's breast. For a long time, that was the only word the baby needed. Ma, ma, ma. Then the mother decided that was her name and she began to speak, too. She taught the baby to be careful: sky, fire, tiger. A mother is always the beginning. She is how things begin."

"These are the women who shaped her life, who are in her bones. They caused her to question whether the order and disorder of her life were due to fate or luck, self-determination or the actions of others. They taught her to worry. But she has also learned that these warnings were passed down, not simply to scare her, but to force her to avoid their footsteps, to hope for something better."


On to Three Junes, by Julia Glass, my next pick. Anyone read it?

Goal #2: A new post on one of the Family History Blogs I created. A very rewarding and fun goal to complete. Check out what I posted about my beautiful great-grandmother here!

Goal #3: My housework schedule, complete and ready to go for our delayed Family Home Evening tonight. Some little people are getting some jobs around here, once and for all. Charlotte led me to some good information online. Here's a chart with some ideas for jobs for kids at the appropriate ages, and here is an FHE lesson on responsibility. (After you click, you need to scroll down to see both pages.) Here are some cute chore charts.

1.16.2007

I Get the News I Need on the Weather Report . . .

Texas is crazy for many reasons. This week, it's the weather. On Sunday afternoon, it was 75 degrees, with 92% humidity. (Yes, we live nearer to the equator than you do.) The kids were getting themselves psyched up for our trip to Hawaii in June, and put on their new swimsuits to play outside.

By tonight, we're supposed to have ice on the roads and, as the weatherman put it, "ice falling out of the sky." The high will be around 34. You can tell this doesn't happen around here too often, since the news people don't even know what to call cold weather.
Parker's preschool was cancelled today. It's just "too cold" to make a 3-year-old go outside!


1.14.2007

Quotes of the Day VIII

Miles woke me up far too ealy this morning. Doesn't he know it's a holiday? Sigh, well, there's not a whole lot to do in our dark, quiet house, so here is another installment in the "Quotes of the Day" series.

Audrey has learned about Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. at school last week, in honor of his birthday today. We were listening to the Curious George soundtrack in the car, and there is a song on it in which the singer says, "I can change the world, with my own two hands," to which Parker always responds:

He can't really change the world all by himself!
This time, Audrey said, "Yes he can! Martin Luther King did!"

Another car conversation: On Sunday morning, it was really foggy around our neighborhood. As we drive to church, we pass by some beautiful green fields that are quite pretty, all misty and magical-looking. Audrey said,
"One day, when I have a horse, I want to go for a walk and ride my horse into the mist over there," all dreamy and wistful she was.
Parker quickly added, in typical 3-year-old boy gruffness, "Ya, and I'll ride my X-men scooter!"

There goes that pretty picture. :)

1.13.2007

Grateful Sunday


I've decided to do a gratitude post each Sunday, to start the week off in a good mood, and to help me stay aware of just how wonderful this life of mine is turning out to be. This week, I'm grateful for:

  • being able to sit next to Neal in Sunday School for the first time in THREE years.
  • only bringing 2 bags to church with me, instead of 3. (I was released from Primary today.)
  • the philosophy at our house that eating out one night each weekend is totally allowed.
  • Audrey and Parker, who are the best of friends and forgive each other (and me) very easily.
  • Miles, who happens to look really cute in cargo pants.
  • my blogs.
  • Girl Scout cookies. I ordered seven boxes yesterday.
  • my washing machine, without which I would be even more bogged down by laundry. (Can you imagine hand washing loads and loads every week? I don't know how moms of the past did it.)
  • our credit cards, which have served us well, but which are now permanently out of our wallets.
  • my smart, handsome husband, who works really hard and doesn't complain, even when he has to work on Saturdays.
A couple of goals for the week:
  1. Finish The Bonesetter's Daughter
  2. Publish a post on my Parker family history blog
  3. Make a weekly housework cleaning/chore schedule