9.30.2006

pumpkins

So it totally does NOT feel like fall where I live, but I was at the grocery store today and saw pumpkins for sale (for 4 bucks a pop!) and immediately started craving pumpkin desserts and pumpkin foods of all sorts. My Grammy's Aunt Lucile Rose Potter Miller had an incredible pumpkin bread recipe. I've shared it below. You will definitely want to try this one, and it's even more delicious when you spread cream cheese frosting ALL over it.


Aunt Lucile's Pumpkin Bread

Makes 2 loaves

3 1/2 c. flour
2 t. baking soda
1 t. salt
1 t. cinnamon
1 t. nutmeg
3 c. sugar
1 c. oil
4 eggs
2 c. pumpkin

Combine all ingredients and pour half of mixture in loaf pan. (remember, it makes 2) Bake at 350 for one hour.

Cream Cheese Frosting
2/3 c. cream cheese
1 t. vanilla
3 c. powdered sugar
Beat cream cheese and vanilla until fluffy. Add sugar. Beat until smooth.

Another delicious one. You may have had something similar to it:
Pumpkin Pudding Cake

1 large can pumpkin
1 can evaporated milk
1 cup sugar
4 eggs
1 tsp salt
1 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp nutmeg
1 tsp ginger
1 tsp cloves

Mix well and pour into a 9x13 cake pan.
Then combine the following ingredients and crumble over the top of pumpkin mixture:

1 box yellow cake mix
1 cup chopped nuts
1 cup melted butter or margarine

Bake at 350 for 1 hour. Let it sit for about 20 minutes and then serve warm with whipped cream on the side.

And one more. I haven't tried this one yet, but when I was youger, my parents took us to New Zealand. (Bear with me, this is related to pumpkins.) We stayed at this incredible place called Huka Lodge in a town called Taupo on the North Island. It was so beautiful, right on a gorgeous river, but what I remember most about it was the food! There were six of us Parker children on the trip, and I guess one night my parents must have wanted to dine alone (what?), so we, the kids, ate at a little bar in the restaurant. Well, this place was so wonderful, that they did not give us "kid food," oh no, it was much too heavenly of a place for chicken tenders. They gave us this Roasted Pumpkin Soup that was one of the most delicious things I have ever tasted. I have since then dreamed of finding that pumpkin soup recipe and recreating it. Well, fat chance, that was like 17 years ago or something. So, I'm going to try one from Food Network instead. :) How about you try it, too?

9.29.2006

Thanks, Natalie!

My friend, Natalie, and I have a good deal going. She gets to practice taking pictures with her really great camera (and her budding talent), and I get gorgeous pictures of my kids! Here are some of my favorites that she took the other day at my house, where there's really good light, apparently.



Thanks Natalie! Can't wait for our next session. But first, Parker needs a haircut. ;)

9.27.2006

You Deserve Some Fluff Today

The following pictures of Miles are mainly directed at his doting aunts and far-away grandparents, but you might enjoy them, too.

Mom, if you click on these pictures to enlarge them, you can kind of see the RED fluff. We're officially declaring what little hair there is to be red. About Audrey's coppery-auburn red. Who knows, it may fall out and turn blonde, we'll see. Crazy!

How cute is this onesie? I love it. I found it on a really cute little website run by a fellow young blogging mom. Check out her other stuff here. She even gave me a $5 "blogging friends" discount, she said she'd give you the discount, too! Thanks, Kate!

Cheek shot

And I found Parker THE coolest shirt at Target. Check it out. Bramma music. :)

You can also see
live-action fluff by clicking here.

9.25.2006

Family Update

Since my blog seems a little silly and frivolous these past few days, I'm not quite sure what to write about. Our life has been thrown into perspective by my dad's unexpected illness, and something I normally would have blogged about seems kind of lame today. Hopefully soon we'll be more sure about his situation and all will be well; please keep him in your prayers.

I thought I would just write a little family update, since I never do anything like that, and one day it will be nice to look back and see what we were all up to. So, in other words, this might be kind of boring for you, as in "Christmas-letter-boring." Feel free to move on to your next blog. :)

Neal is very busy in his second year of a three-year residency in Endodontics. (That means root canals; fun, huh?) He goes to school every day and once in a while has an afternoon off. During those afternoons and every other Saturday, he works at local dentists' offices doing root canals on their patients. He gets paid half of their fee, so it works out pretty well. It's wonderful finally having some income after all these years of education and slavery to the dental school! I appreciate his abilities and talents so much and feel so blessed to be married to someone so ambitious, determined, and patient. Typical of Neal, he's got lots of hobbies all going on simultaneously. Along with the yard, which sometimes feels like a hobby (the garden part anyway), he has three snakes, a tarantula and a new little saltwater tank to occupy his mind. Who knows how he finds time to enjoy any of these things, but I've learned that they are necessary outlets and diversions for Neal, so I enjoy them, too. Well, kind of. Snakes and spiders? Yes, I'm crazy, but I love the boy so I don't mind the creepy crawlies.

I'm obviously not enjoying a whole lot of free time since the arrival of our sweet little Miles, but his presence in our family is such a blessing. He's slowed us all down a bit and causes us to take a little time to sit still and smile every day. I have two days a week when Audrey and Parker are both in school, so I usually take those days to do the grocery shopping and take naps, which is great. I'm trying to get back into my calling as Primary chorister, but it's kind of tricky with Miles around. The Primary Sacrament Meeting program is coming up in a few weeks, and after that, maybe it won't feel so urgent or stressful! I kind of come and go on my favorite hobby, researching and compiling family history, but I'm gearing up for more action that way. The rest of my days are spent on errands and playdates and now that there are two in school, we spend a good amount of time in the car. Thankfully, a new friend of mine is picking Audrey up each day, so that saves me a lot of stress (waking the baby, sitting in the hot carpool line, etc.) I'm really looking forward to Stephanie's visit next month, and visits from my parents after that. We're also excited for our trip to visit Neal's family in Oklahoma for Thanksgiving. I feel like I've pretty much fully recovered from my c-section and bout with pneumonia, now if I could just get this baby to sleep through the night! Yeah, right.

Audrey is loving all the adventures she has at kindergarten every day. They require the little five-year-olds here to go to school from 8 to 3, five days a week, so the hours are pretty intense. She's very worn out by bedtime and by Friday, she is really ready to veg out. But I think we're going to sign her up for Girl Scouts soon; she'll be a "Daisy Scout" (how cute!). It seems like something that would be right up her alley--learning all sorts of interesting things and making new friends. She's also said she wants to take ballet, so maybe we'll look into that, too. She takes the gifted test today at school, which I'm kind of nervous about. I want her to not be shy, to show the tester person that she knows the answers to things (if she does), and not to be ashamed of her amazing little brain. I guess we'll see how it turns out! She's only in kindergarten, of course, so it's not that big of a deal, but I want to be sure she's being challenged and not bored in her class. In her free time lately, she's been playing with our bird, Twiggy, whom she adores. She loves using the easel (white board and chalk board) in her room, writing little statements and stories, or copying the shapes of the states from the map in her room. So far she's done Maine, Texas (of course) and Indiana. She still loves to read more than anything else, and loves to boss Parker around, true to form.

Parker is still our easy-going, sweet little huggable boy, but he doesn't seem so little anymore, with the addition of his teeny brother! He's in preschool twice a week, which he's starting to like more and more. At first, he would say things like, "school just isn't fun for me," which of course worried me and caused me to second-guess our decision to enroll him. But it's been good for him to get out of the house, since that's where he'd be (cooped up like me!) if he wasn't in school. He's still really into superheroes and unfortunately, has begun an obsession with computer games. We try to nip it in the bud, though, setting the timer, making Sunday a no-computer day (for all of us!), etc. I vow to not have a child addicted to computer games for the rest of his life! Parker learned how to swim really well this summer and has now figured out how to ride a scooter. He's also getting much better at riding his own bike without being pushed with the handle. I'm sure by Christmas he'll be good enough that he just might get a new bike from Santa. He also loves to fight with his foam swords and play baseball.

Miles is everything a baby should be: cuddly, chubby (sort of), sweet-smelling and adorable. I can't get enough of his sweet little warm baby-ness. His soft little temples and fluffy head of sparse red hair are enough to make me melt, even when he's crying, which he doesn't even do very often. He's a very calm little baby, very observant and alert. He's so close to smiling, he'll do it any minute and I can't wait for the first real one!

9.23.2006

nigh-night

I just love it when Miles is sleeping and his yummy soft baby lips do this:

9.22.2006

Employment

I'm in the market for a better-paying job than the one I have now. I mean, I'm really enjoying the benefits, but the pay just isn't there. :) Okay, well, I'm really only interested in having more money so I can buy my kids some adorable clothes from Olive Juice. Some stuff like this.





Seriously cute, no? I just like to browse their site every once in a while. Now be careful if you go there, you may need to find a new job, too. This stuff ain't cheap.

9.21.2006

Items in the News

Item #1: HUGO CHAVEZ is a complete psycho. In case you didn't hear, he called President Bush the devil and even said that the podium at which he was speaking at the UN (the same podium Bush used the day before) still smelled like sulfur from George Bush's presence. Um, OK.

Item #2: Um, can you say Book of Mormon peoples? So cool! More information here.

Item #3: Oh no. This one is sad. :(


Item #4: (ok, this isn't really news, but whatever, it's my blog!) Jim and Pam were on the Today Show this morning discussing tonight's episode of "The Office." If you are a fan, and you should be, you must see it. Click here.

9.19.2006

Quotes of the Day VI

Audrey to Parker, while they're eating a bedtime snack of peaches and rainbow goldfish last night. I'm sitting on the couch nursing Miles. This is proof that Audrey, since the age of two, has thought she was smarter than her parents.

Audrey: "Parkie, how come you always believe what Mommy says but you don't believe what I say? I know just as much as she does!"
Me, butting into the conversation: "Um, Audrey, no you don't. You are five. I'm twenty-eight. You don't know everything, and I don't either."
Audrey: "Well, I know some of the things you know."


Parker, (who, along with Audrey, has a little obsession with all things a) Egyptian or b) related to bodies, especially the dead kind). In the car on the way home from church last night:

Parker: "I can't see the sun."
Me: "That's because it's night time, baby. The sun isn't shining on us right now."
Parker: "It's shining in Egypt. It's always daytime in Egypt. Well, it gets dark when all the mummies are dead."
Me: "Yeah, I think you're right."

The Daily Fluff

Ok, enough of that business, here you go, Steph. Still hungry? Come visit; you can have a bite of mine!

Have I mentioned how crazy I am about this little guy? Oooo, just delicious.

Miles Jefferson, 5 weeks old.

9.18.2006

For the rest of my life . . . very whiney post, beware

I make school lunches at night. It's just one less thing to do in the morning and it helps me sleep a little better. Oh, and did I mention that I'll be making them at night for the next 18 years? I also do laundry every day (don't we all, ladies?) and I remember the moment when I realized that I will be doing laundry almost every day for the rest of my life.

I got married when I was 20 (sheesh, no wonder Neal's brother called me his "highschool bride"). My husband, although he is infinitely more wonderful and gobs more brilliant than I ever thought he could be at that time, doesn't like to pick things up. Or put things away. Or anything like that. So I remember the moment, in our little condo in P-town, when I realized that if it was going to be done, it was ME who would be doing it (at least until my kids are older and I really put them to work, ha ha).

I remember walking by some socks on the floor about 7 years ago and realizing that if I never picked them up, they would be there forever. Nothing against Neal, of course (love you baby), I mean, he would pick them up, but I'd have to ask him to. That's when it hit me: just do it now and get it over with. I said to myself, "Don't walk by those socks without picking them up, you'll just have to come back to do it later."

Neal and I have a good understanding, I think. We both realize that we have separate jobs, mine is in the home, his is out. I don't ever expect him to do housework, just as he doesn't expect me to do root canals to pay the bills. We have our spheres, you know? He'll help me with housework if I ask him to, of course, but I rarely do. He works hard enough as it is.

And so it is. I mean, doing laundry every day could easily beset me (and sometimes, like today, it does). But there are so many other more horrific things going on in the world. Women in Mozambique would kill for my laundry room, right Jooj? Natalie would too. :) I'm just feeling petty today.

Of course, I chose to be a "homemaker," and how grateful I am to my families and my husband that I am able to be one. I wouldn't trade it for an office job, that's for sure. Been there, done that: don't love it. I DO love the smelling-the-baby-lips, hugging-the-kids, staying-in-pajamas-until-noon, meeting-the-kids-for-lunch-at-school, getting-the-mail-as-the-highlight-of-my-day part of my life. DON'T love the sock-picking-up, lunch-making, laundry-folding, bathroom-floor-cleaning parts.

Just so you know. Thanks for listening.

Oh, and my advice: don't ever leave a room empty-handed. You'll just have to come back later . . . you know the rest. Anyway, off to make lunches.

9.17.2006

Just some thoughts I had in the middle of the night



From Mormon.org:
"Living prophets

Throughout history, God has chosen prophets, such as Noah, Abraham, Moses, and others, to teach the gospel and direct His Church (Amos 3:7). It is no different today. We all need GodÂ’s guidance in a world that is sometimes confusing. Because God loves His children, He continues to send living prophets. Joseph Smith (1805-–44) was the first prophet of our time. Gordon B. Hinckley is God'’s chosen prophet today. Just as God led the Israelites out of slavery and to a better place through His prophet Moses, He leads His children today into happier, more peaceful lives when they choose to follow His living prophet."

As I was nursing Miles this morning at around three o'clock, I was staring up at the ceiling, feeling my sweet little boy slowly breathing as he drifted back to sleep. I started thinking about the president of our church, Gordon B. Hinckley, whom we believe to be a modern-day prophet. I thought about the fact that he was once a baby, too. I wondered about what he was like growing up. Was he easy to raise? Was he always so pleasant and optimistic as he is now, at 96?

I thought how strange it is that one day I will be the same age as the prophet. That man will have lived his life as a contemporary with me. How amazing that right now, there is a young father somewhere, about my age, who will one day be the prophet to the world. Someone my age is living their life in this often terrible world in such a way that they will one day be called of God to lead His Church and the world through undoubtedly tougher times.

And somewhere, there is a baby who will one day be the prophet. Somewhere there is a mother who is raising a boy who will be worthy enough to have that sacred calling. Am I living that way? Am I raising sons who will be worthy enough? I don't know, but I'm going to try harder.

9.15.2006

Babywearing

The more kids I have, the more hands-free time I need; can you relate? Well, the other side of the coin is that I keep having these cute little boys who love to be hugged and cuddled all the time, which is definitely fine by me, except for the hands-free need thing. Sigh.

In other words, Miles likes to be held, surprise surprise, and if it were up to me, I would hold and hug him all day. I never tire of his sweet little smell and adorable little expressions and sounds. I remember when Audrey was a newborn and I could just lay down on the couch with her for every nap. We both got plenty of rest and since I had no other kids and lived in 700 square feet, I didn't have a whole lot else to do! (mothers of one baby, take note. enjoy having one baby. it gets harder. :) )

Well, count my blessings, these days, life is not so simple. Dinner needs making, laundry needs folding, primary needs its chorister back, and other kids need hugging, too.

So I'm in the market for a "sling." I think "babywearing," as it is called, is a wonderful thing. I can't stand to see babies lugged around strapped into their car seats all day, plus my upper body strength is not where I'd like it to be and those things are heavy! Babies are only small for so short a time, and I love baby-to-mommy contact in any form. My friend Kelsey uses these cute slings, but they're a little pricey. Anyone have a good sling they'd recommend?

(Oh, and I'm not into those panels of fabric that are like 8 yards long that you wrap all over yourself like a bandage. I'm not really the organic hippie-type!)

9.14.2006

Jealousy Time

This post is in regard to Stephanie's blog today about a show that was on TV once upon a time. Steph and I would steal moments and watch it, and here I am with one of the stars. If you are not interested, please see the post below; it's way cuter. :)


Me with Jared Leto at the Sundance Film Festival in 1997. It was a really fun night. This is, of course, months before I met my wonderful Neal.

*I was on a date with someone else and ran into Jared Leto at the premiere of his movie. I had my date take this picture. :)

My Kids

One day I was blog-surfing through Stephanie's myriad of links and found this really fun one, and I stole an idea from it. hehee. The lady had only asked her kids 6 questions; I added a few because it was so fun! Of course, the older they are, the better, because they'll have more independent ideas, but if your kids can talk, ask them these!


Here's how Audrey (5 1/2) answered:

1. Something I do well - "drawing"
2. Something I'd like to improve on - "cartwheels"
3. My favorite food - "miso soup"
4. Three words that best describe me - "That my favorite color is dark teal, I can ride horsies, I have red hair."
5. My happiest moment - "when I'm riding horsies"
6. The most important thing in my life now - "going to school"
7. My favorite movie - "The Last Unicorn"
8. My favorite book - "Spirit"
9. My favorite person in the whole world - "Callie" (new best friend at school)
10. Instead of going to school, I wish I could - "go swimming every day, and I wish the pool never ever closed."
11. My favorite place to go - "the movie theater"
12. My favorite thing to draw - "unicorns and horses"
13. Something I want for Christmas - "My Little Pony Rainbow Castle"
14. My favorite color is - "dark teal, purple and pink"
15. At recess, I like to play - "unicorn club, because I want everyone to know about unicorns"
16. When it's raining, I like to - "read and draw."
17. My favorite animal is - "birds and horses."

Then to the moms or dads: Were you surprised by any of the answers? Not really; Audrey is pretty predictable these days. I didn't know she wished so much that she could do cartwheels. I think it's great that she likes miso soup so much. My kids love Japanese food! I love how she wants to spread the word about unicorns. Today she came home and said she found another girl during PE that believes in unicorns, so tomorrow she's going to try and find her on the playground so she can join the club, too.


Here's how Parker (3 1/2) answered:

1. Something I do well - "playing the computer"
2. Something I'd like to improve on - "climb up a house"
3. My favorite food - "budgunk " (orange juice)
4. Three words that best describe me - "I'm three, I wish I could be a superhero, I have yellow hair, like you Mommy."
5. My happiest moment - "climbing on the monkey bars"
6. The most important thing in my life now - "my family" (this one took some prompting)
7. My favorite movie - "Batman"
8. My favorite book - "Superman books"
9. My favorite person in the whole world - "You" (his mommy, totally unsolicited, promise :) )
10. Instead of going to school, I wish I could - "play the computer"
11. My favorite place to go - "Superhero school" (at the Nasa Space center)
12. My favorite thing to draw - "Superman"
13. Something I want for Christmas - "a glow-in-the-dark Batman"
14. My favorite color is - "dark blue"
15. At recess, I like to play - "the monkey bars"
16. When it's raining, I like to - "play catch"
17. My favorite animal is - "bats"

Then to the moms or dads: Were you surprised by any of the answers? I didn't know that Parker considers his hair blonde, it's more of a goldeny-peachy color, some call it red. I also didn't know that he liked bats; obviously, that's an homage to Batman. Unfortunately, I did know that he LOVES to play the computer. Shame on me for letting him get so good at it!

9.13.2006

Jooj!

My sister Julianne, is really cool. Listen to this.

Well, it's really long, but if you have time, it's worth a listen. Julianne was interviewed on KUCI, a radio station in California, about her experiences in Africa and with the organization Care for Life. Way to go, Jooj!